Rebecca was born in 1879. She was a good
girl who helped her mother in the house and assisted with the care of her
brothers and sisters. She was late to marry due to her family commitments.
She was very upset at the death of her brother George in 1915. At age 37
she decided to marry an English sailor Thomas James Knox. Obviously, the
family did not approve of him but still Rebecca travelled to South
Brisbane to marry him on 29 August 1917 at
Holy
Trinity
Church
. It was said that Rebecca had to marry to keep her house.
Thomas James Knox was born to Thomas Suffield Knox and
his wife Rebecca (nee Harper) in
London
. Thomas James Knox had a wife and children in
England
. Their son Thomas Knox did eventually come to
Australia
. At the
Brisbane
wedding, Thomas declared that he was 34 years old, a seaman, and a
bachelor who lived at Norden St Cannon Hill (
Brisbane
). Thomas and Rebecca returned to Ryde and lived at
70 Church St
.
Thomas and Rebecca Knox had three children born at home
being:
Thomas was a worker who had many jobs on ships, boats,
farm work, wharves, fishing, fixing boats, nets etc. James said that
he was a good fisherman and almost always brought a catch home. On one
fishing trip he returned with watermelons. He took the boys fishing on
Parramatta
River
,
the Hawkesbury
River
at Brooklyn and
at Windsor
. Some of the mates would go fishing at Anglers Inn at
Brooklyn
(drink at the pub and returned with fish purchased off other fishermen).
Thomas worked on boat repairs with his mates Mr Whitmore and Mr Robinson
and with his brother Alfred Knox.
During the depression when work was scarce, they went
fishing and prawning using the boats . Thomas took his son Bill on a horse
and sulky trip from Ryde to Maitland and returned with a horse he
purchased. The trip took over a week and they camped along the way.
Thomas did get drunk and hit his wife. Rebecca took out
a restraining order on him and they separated . Thomas went back to
England
and married again. His English wife found out about his Australian wife
and contacted her. Thomas was charged with bigamy and served six months in
Dartmoor Prison in
England
. He later returned to
Sydney
.
Rebecca, as a deserted wife, did well raising the
children but was assisted by her sisters living next door. The farm and
the home gardens, chickens, the cow, and the fishing helped feed the
families. Andy and Bill had a good time as youths and did many things with
their cousins Ned and Jack Stevens. Some of the pranks the boys were
involved in landed young Jack in trouble with the aunts .
Rebecca lost her dad William Woodcock in 1918 when she
was 39 and her mum, Annie, in (1934) when she was 55. James stated
that he did homework for both Betty and Bill, whilst they were at school.
The boys enjoyed fishing, boating building billy carts and cricket.
When World War II broke out, many of the boys enlisted in the services.
Ned joined the navy as a diver whilst Bill and Jack joined the army.
A few years after the War, Bill met Eunice and after
a two-year courtship they married in 1948. William John Knox (age 26)
married Eunice Margaret Holden (age 20) at St Andrews Church
Parramatta
. They honeymooned at Katoomba and built their home in Merrylands. They
had five children in two shifts. The children are:
Sadly, William Knox passed away on 8 July 2008 and is
buried at
Pinegrove
Cemetery
.
Betty Francis Knox cared for her mum Rebecca up to the
time of her death in 1954. Rebecca Knox saw two grandchildren born. She
died aged 75 and is at Northern Suburbs Crematorium. At age 37,
Betty married
John Joseph Lane
at St Anne's Church Ryde in January 1955.
John Lane
was a chef from Surry Hills but as a TPI war veteran, their married life -
of 14 years - was cut short by John’s untimely death in 1969.
Betty Lane
(nee Knox) lived all her life at
70 Church St
Ryde, except for recent months (late 2008) when she broke her hip in a
fall and lives in a nursing home in Penrith.
James ( Jim /Andy ) Knox lived at Ryde until the mid
1950’s. From there he lived for many years on a 10 acre property at
Kellyville. He later sold the property and retired to live at Toukley, in
the 1980’s. James never married.